Many of us have
grown up with the tradition of kissing under the mistletoe, but I’m guessing
most of us don’t have any idea about the plant or the origins behind its
magical aura.
First, about the plant. Mistletoe is
actually a predatory plant, which evolved and prospered by leeching nutrients
from other plants. It’s considered a partial parasite, because it can grow on
its own, but is more commonly found growing out of the branches and trunks of
trees. You might not be aware that the pretty white berries found on mistletoe
are poisonous. (Hmm, there’s plot potential there!) Mistletoe’s earliest
ancestor is sandalwood, another predatory plant which has also been portrayed romantically
in fiction. When I hear sandalwood I think ancient Egypt, mummies, and
vampires. Like mistletoe, sandalwood is a parasitic plant, stealing other
plants’ nutrients to live. Harsh though this history seems after all the
romance, it does make sandalwood the perfect icon for a great vampire story!
Now for the magic. The ancient Druids
prized Mistletoe as an agent of fertility, luck, and peace. They hung the plant
over their doors and used it in ritual sacrifices to ensure prosperity. The
tradition of kissing under the mistletoe seems to have initiated in Greece,
tied to the festival of Saturnalia, and originated under the belief that the
plant harbored a life-giving force and had fertility and aphrodisiac powers. Scandinavian
history gave mistletoe peace-enhancing properties. Often, warring factions would
declare a truce under the mistletoe. Battling spouses also made up under it. In
eighteenth century England, young girls standing under a ball of mistletoe at
Christmas could not refuse a kiss, and if they were not kissed that night, it
was considered a sign that they wouldn’t marry the following year. Kissing
under the mistletoe was seen as a promise to marry as well as an assurance of a
long and happy life.
Today, kissing
under the mistletoe is a fun party game. It means little more than an excuse to
kiss someone you favor. But it’s no less fun and interesting for this lack of a
deeper meaning. Even if we don’t know the history behind the act, the reasons
for doing it have persisted for centuries. The human animal seeks love and
acceptance through any means necessary. Even by kissing someone we cherish
under a parasitic plant with poisonous berries!
Whatever the tradition involving this
unique and tenacious plant, one thing is clear, it has inspired many centuries
of hope and fun, and no holiday season would be the same without it!
Have a great
holiday season everybody!
Damian Noire is a
Perdition Guide. He escorts people who die to their rightful spot in Hell.
Business always seems to pick up around the Holidays and this Christmas is no
exception. Damian’s assignment is to bring a beautiful young woman to Hell to
stand before the judgment assembly, and then take her to her assigned circle of
Hell. It sounds simple. But it’s about to become the hardest assignment he’s
ever performed.
Amanda Wright might
have been unjustly judged. She might not belong in Hell at all. Problem is,
Damian really kind of likes her. He especially likes enjoying her lush, willing
body under the mistletoe. If he gets her the judgment she truly deserves, he’s
probably going to lose her forever. But if he doesn’t help her, an innocent may
spend eternity in Hell. It appears to be a lose/lose situation on all fronts.
Proving once again that holidays truly are hell!
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Mistletoe is a big tradition in England too, but the Germans haven't really caught on to it. We always hang a sprig in our hallway! :)
ReplyDeleteValerie
in Germany
Neither in Finland is mistletoe a big tradition, as big as in USA. All the tales around it are great, I think
ReplyDeletetessa(dot)bamberg(at)kolumbus(dot)fi
It was fun to find out there was so much more to the tradition than I knew. I especially didn't know the plant itself was so interesting.
ReplyDeleteIve never been kissed under the mistletoe, but enjoyed learning more about it !
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas !
~Kym
flwrs4ever(at)yahoo(dot)com
Interesting information.
ReplyDeletebn100candg(at)hotmail(dot)com
Hey Kym! I wonder how many of us actually have been kissed under the mistletoe? It would be a fun poll. I'll bet not many have.
ReplyDeleteI kissed my hubby under the mistletoe this evening. My daughter had some hanging up in her hallway, so I grabbed him..hehe!!
ReplyDeleteValerie
What a fun post, Sam! Thanks a bunch!
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